QUOTATIONS pertaining
to CHARACTER

"The wisdom of the wise and the experience of ages may be preserved by quotations"
Isaac D’Israeli

ABILITY
"Use what talents you possess; The woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best."
- William Blake


"A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn [control] a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take order, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, and die gallantly. Specialization is for insects!"
-Robert A. Heinlein, The Notebook of Lazarus Long


"If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves."
-Thomas Alva Ediso

"If you can’t be a highway, just be a trail. If you can’t be the sun, be a star. It isn’t by size that you win or you fail, It’s by being the best of whatever you are."
-Anonymous

"Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark places where it leads.
-Erica Jong.

"Everyone must row with the oars he has."
-English proverb

"The same man cannot well be skilled in everything; each has his own excellence."
-Euripides, Rhesus (c. 455-441 B.C.)

"Skill and confidence are an unconquered army."
-George Herbert, Jacula Prudentium (1651)

"He is able who thinks he is able."
-Buddha

ABOUT BEING ONESELF
"If all pulled in one direction, the world would keel over.
-Yiddish Proverb

"Do just once what others say you can’t do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again."
-James R. Cook

"If a million people say a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
-Anatole France [Jacques Anatole Thibault] (1844-1924)

"When all think alike, no one is thinking very much."
-Walter Lippmann (1889-1974)

"Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it."
-Buddha

"The man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The man who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has ever been."
-Alan Ashley-Pitt

"Only a dead fish goes with the flow."
-Ethan Evans

"Bloom where you are planted."
-Nancy Reader Campion’s Aunt Grace

"Do not try to imitate the lark or the nightingale if you can’t do it. If it’s your destiny to croak like a toad, then go ahead! And with all your might! Make them hear you!"
-Louis-Ferdinand Celine

"One can never consent to creep when one feels an impulse to soar."
-Helen Keller

"Be yourself, who else is better qualified?"
-Frank J. Giblin

"Every single one of us can do things that no one else can do - can love things that no one else can love. We are like violins. We can be used for doorstops, or we can make music. You know what to do."
-Barbara Sher

ACHIEVEMENT
"Don’t be afraid to take a big step. You can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps."
-David Lloyd George

"Begin somewhere. You cannot build a reputation on what you intend to do."
-Liz Smith

"Conviction is worthless unless it is converted into conduct."
-Thomas Carlyle

"Make no little plans! They have no magic to stir men’s blood."
-Daniel Burnham

"If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door."
-Unknown


ADMIRATION
"It is not because the touch of genius has roused genius to production, but because the admiration of genius has made talent ambitious that the harvest is so abundant."
-Sarah Margaret Fuller

"Don’t accept your dog’s admiration as conclusive evidence that you are wonderful."
-Ann Landers

"I have always been an admirer. I regard the gift of admiration as indispensable if one is to amount to something. I don’t know where I would be without it."
-Thomas Mann

"Whatever you commend, add your reasons for doing so. It is this which distinguishes the approbation of a man of sense from the flattery of sycophants and admiration of fools."
-Sir Richard Steele

ARGUMENT

"Arguments only confirm people in their own opinions."
-Booth Tarkington, Looking Forward to the Great Adventure (1926)

"If you would convince others, seem open to conviction yourself."
-Lord Chesterfield, Letters to His Son, Feb. 22, 1748

"The most savage controversies are those about matters as to which there is no good evidence either way."
-Bertrand Russell, "An Outline of Intellectual Rubbish," Unpopular Essays (1950)

ASPIRATION
"Ah, but a man’s reach should exceed his grasp, Or what’s a heaven for?"
-Robert Browning, "Andrea Del Sarto," Men and Women (1855)

"First, say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do."
-Epictetus, Discourses (2nd C. ), 3.23.

"An aspiration is a joy forever, a possession as solid as a landed estate, a fortune which we can never exhaust and which gives us year by year a revenue of pleasurable activity."
-Robert Louis Stevenson, "el Dorado." Virginibus Puerisque (1881).

"Tis but a base, ignoble mind that mounts no higher than a bird can soar."
-William Shakespeare, 2 Henry VI, (1590-91), 2.1

"Great hopes make great men."
-Thomas Fuller


"The future belong to those who believe in their dreams."
-Eleanor Roosevelt

AUTONOMY
"I have discovered that we may be in some degree whatever character we choose. Besides, practice forms a man to anything."
-James Boswell

"Every man is the son of his own works."
-Cervantes, Don Quixote (1605-15) I.I.4

"The wisest men follow their own direction."
-Euripides, Iphigenia in Tauris (c.414-12 B.C.)

"We can’t reach old age by another man’s road."
-Mark Twain

"You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was."
-Abraham Lincoln

CARING/LOVING
"For small creatures such as we, the vastness is bearable only through love."
-Carl Sagan.

"Goodness is the only investment that never fails."
-Henry David Thoreau.

"In this world of extremes, we can only love too little."
-Rich Cannarella.

"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition."
-Alexander Smith.

"To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead."
-Bertrand Arthur William Russell. 1872-1970. (British philosopher, logician, essayist and social critic)

"To hide the key to your heart is to risk forgetting where you placed it."
-Timothy Childers.

"True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked."
-Erich Segal

"Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is well done."
-Vincent van Gogh

"Love, above all, the gift of oneself."
-Jean Anouilh, Ardele (1948),2

"Love transforms: it simultaneously makes us larger and limits our possibilities. It changes our history even as it breaks a new path through the present."
-Michael Dorris, "The Power of Love," Paper Trail (1994)

"In order to love simply, it is necessary to know how to show love."
-Dostoyevsky, "Bookishness and Literacy," Complete Collected Works, (1895), v.9

"Love is all we have, the only way / that each can help the other."
-Euripides, Orestes, (408 B.C.)

CHARACTER
"When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends."
-Japanese proverb.

"Keep in mind that the true measure of an individual is how he treats a person who can do him absolutely no good."
-Ann Landers.

"Character is tested by true sentiments more than by conduct. A man is seldom better than his word."
-Lord Acton, Postscript, Letter to Mandell Creighton, April 5, 1887

"In necessary things, unity; in doubtful things, liberty; in all things, charity."
-Richard Baxter (1615-1691) Motto

"Happiness is not the end of life; character is."
-Henry Ward Beecher, Life Thoughts (1858)

"As he thinketh in his heart, so is he."
-Bible, Proverbs 23:7

"People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character."
-Emerson, "Worship," The Conduct of Life (1860)

"Genius is formed in quiet; character in the stream of human life."
-Goethe, Torquato Tasso (1790), 1.2

"A man’s character is his guardian divinity."
-Heraclitus, Fragments (c. 500 B.C.69)

"Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved."
-Helen Keller, Helen Keller’s Journal (1938)

"Character is much easier kept than recovered."
-Thomas Paine

"Character is the sum and total of a person’s choices."
-P.B. Fitzwater

"We should be too big to take offense and too noble to give it."
-Abraham Lincoln

"Good character is more to be praised than outstanding talent. Most talents are, to some extent, a gift. Good character, by contrast, is not given to us. We have to build it piece by piece - by thought, choice, courage and determination."
-John Luther

"When men speak ill of thee, live so as nobody may believe them"
-Plato

CHARITY
"Above all things have fervent charity among yourselves. For charity shall cover the multitude of sins."
- New Testament. 1 Peter 4:8

"We should give as we would receive, cheerfully, quickly, and without hesitation; for there is no grace in a benefit that sticks to the fingers."
-Seneca

"If you have much, give of your wealth; if you have little, give of your heart."
-Arab proverb.

"He that has no charity deserves no mercy."
-English proverb

"In faith and hope the world will disagree, / But all mankind’s concern is charity."
-Alexander Pope, An Essay on Man (1733-34)

"Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, as long as ever you can."
-John Wesley

"Do good with what thou hast,or it will do thee no good."
-William Penn

"Those who give have all things; they who withhold have nothing."
-Hindu proverb

"Provision for others is the fundamental responsibility of human life."
-Woodrow Wilson

CICERO’S SIX MISTAKES OF MAN (according to Arthur F. Lenehan):
- The delusion that individual advancement is made by crushing others.
- The tendency to worry about things that cannot be changed or corrected.
- Insisting that a thing is impossible because we cannot accomplish it.
- Refusing to set aside trivial preferences.
- Neglecting development and refinement of the mind and not acquiring the habit of reading and studying.
- Attempting to compel the other person to believe and live as we do.

CITIZENSHIP
"Citizenship is man’s basic right for it is nothing less than the right to have rights. Remove this priceless possession and there remains a stateless person, disgraced and degraded in the eyes of his countrymen."
-Chief Justice Earl Warren, Dissent, Perez v. Brownell (1958)

"All the citizens of a state cannot be equally powerful, but they may be equally free."
-Voltaire, "Government, Philosophical Dictionary (1764)

"The most important office...that of private citizen."
-Louise D. Brandeis

"Citizenship comes first today in our crowded world...No man can enjoy the privileges of education and thereafter with a clear conscience break his contract with society. To respect that contract is to be mature, to strengthen it is to be a good citizen, to do more than your share under it is noble."
-Isaiah Bowman

"Every good citizen makes his country’s honor his own, and cherishes it not only as precious but as sacred. He is willing to risk his life in its defense and is conscious that he gains protection while he gives it."
-Andrew Jackson

"Let us at all times remember that all American citizens are brothers of a common country, and should dwell together in bonds of fraternal feeling."
-Abraham Lincoln

"The first requisite of a good citizen in this republic of ours is that he should be able and willing to pull his weight."
-Theodore Roosevelt

"Citizenship consists in the service of the country."
-Jawaharlal Nehru

"The true test of civilization is not the census, nor the size of the cities, nor the crops - no, but the kind of man the country turns out."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Fame is a vapor, popularity an accident, riches take wing, and only character endures."
-Horace Greeley

COMMITMENT
"Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes - but no plans."
-Peter F. Drucker

"The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence regardless of their chosen field of endeavor."
-Vincent "Vince" Lombardi

"There’s a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interest in doing something you do it only when circumstances permit. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results."
-Art Turok

"The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it’s not without doubt, but in spite of doubt."
-Rollo May

COMPASSION/MERCY

"Teach me to feel another’s woe, / To hide the fault I see; / That mercy I to others show, / That mercy show to me."
-Alexander Pope, "The Universal Prayer" (1738), 10

"Clemency is the support of justice."
-Russian proverb

"Sweet mercy is nobility’s true badge."
-Shakespeare, Titus Andronicus (1592-93), 1.l.119

"The quality of mercy is not strained; / It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven / Upon the place beneath. It is twice blessed–/ It blesseth him that gives, and him that takes."
-Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice (1596-97), 4.l.184

"By compassion we make others’ misery our own, and so by relieving them, we relieve ourselves also."
-Sir Thomas Brown, Religio Medici (1642), 2

"The value of compassion cannot be over-emphasized. Anyone can criticize. It takes a true believer to be compassionate. No greater burden can be borne by an individual than to know no one cares or understands."
-Arthur Stainback

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."
-Mohandas Gandhi

"Until he extends the circle of his compassion to all living things, man will not himself find peace." -Albert Schweitzer

COMPROMISE

"All government - indeed, every human benefit and enjoyment, every virtue and every prudent act - is founded on compromise and barter."
- Edmund Burke, Speech, "On Conciliation with the American Colonies," March 22, 1775.

"A lean compromise is better than a fat lawsuit."
-George Herbert, Jacula Prudentum (1651)

"It is better to lose the saddle than the horse."
-Italian proverb

CONCILIATION
"A soft answer turneth away wrath."
-Bible, Proverbs 15:1

"Blessed are the peacemakers, / For they have freed themselves from sinful wrath."
-Dante, "Purgatorio," 17, The Divine Comedy (c. 1300-21)

"Be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath."
-Bible, James 1:19

CONSCIENCE
"Conscience is God’s presence in man."
-Emmanuel Swedenborg

"Trust that man in nothing who has not a conscience in everything."
-Laurence Sterne

"Most men sell their souls and live with a good conscience on the proceeds."
-Logan Pearsall Smith

"A good conscience is a continual Christmas."
-Benjamin Franklin

"Reason often makes mistakes but conscience never does."
-Josh Billings

"There is no witness so terrible, no accuser so powerful as conscience which dwells within us." -Sophocles

CONSEQUENCES
"Sometimes when I consider what tremendous consequences come from little things, I am tempted to think there are no little things."
-Bruce Barton

"While we are free to choose our actions, we are not free to choose the consequence of our actions." -Stephen R. Covey

"Every great decision creates ripples - like a huge boulder dropped into a lake. The ripples merge, rebound off the banks in unforeseeable ways. The heavier the decision, the larger the waves, the more uncertain the consequences."
-Benjamin Disraeli

"In nature there are neither rewards or punishment - there are consequences."
-Robert Green Ingersoll

"Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequence of any misfortune."
-William James

"Honor isn’t about making the right choices. It’s about dealing with the consequences."
-Midori Koto

COOPERATION
"In the end, aggressors always destroy themselves, making way for others who know how to cooperate and get along. Life is much less a competitive struggle for survival than a triumph of cooperation and creativity."
-Fritjof Capra

"Every kind of peaceful cooperation among men is primarily based on mutual trust and only secondarily on institutions such as courts of justice and police."
-Albert Einstein

"The deepest American dream is not the hunger for money or fame; it is the dream of settling down in peace and freedom and cooperation in the promised land."
-Scott Russell Sanders

"A common danger unites even the bitterest enemies."
-Aristotle, Politics (4th C. B.C.) 5.5

"A snowflake is one of God’s most fragile creations, but look what they can do when they stick together!"
-Unknown

COURAGE
"Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear–not absence of fear."
-Mark Twain.

"To dare is to lose one’s footing momentarily. Not to dare is to lose oneself."
-Soren Kierkegaard.

"You can’t test courage cautiously."
-Anne Dillard.

"Courage is fear that’s said its prayers."
-Karle Wilson Baker

"Problems call forth our courage and our wisdom, indeed they create our courage and wisdom. It is only because of problems that we grow. It is for this reason that wise people learn not to dread but actually welcome problems."
-M. Scott Peck from "The Road Less Traveled."

"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear."
-Ambrose Bierce.

"Difficulties are meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong by conflict."
-William Ellery Channing.

"Remember, you can’t steal second if you don’t take your foot off first."
-Mike Todd.

"Great occasions do not make heroes or cowards; they simply unveil them to the eyes. Silently and imperceptibly, as we wake or sleep, we grow strong or we grow weak, and at last some crisis shows us what we have become."
-Bishop Westcott

"One man with courage makes a majority."
-Andrew Jackson

"It is better to die on one’s feet than to live on one’s knees."
-Albert Camus

"What worries you, masters you."
-Haddon W. Robinson

COMMUNITY
"What is not good for the swarm is not good for the bee."
-Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (2nd c.), 6.54

"Rain does not fall on one roof alone."
-Cameroonian proverb

"No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is as piece of the continent."
-John Donne, Devotions (1624)

"I am part of all that I have met."
-Lord Tennyson, "Ulysses" (1842)

"Like the body that is made up of different limbs and organs, all moral creatures must depend on each other to exist."
-Hindu proverb

"We are all angels with only one wing. We can only fly while embracing each other."
-Luciano De Crescenzo

COURTESY
"Courtesy is a man’s privilege, not an obligation."
-Anonymous.

"Never underestimate the power of simple courtesy. Your courtesy may not be returned or remembered, but discourtesy will."
-Princess Jackson Smith.

"Treat your superior as a father, your equal as a brother, and your inferior as a son."
-Persian proverb.

"Nothing is ever lost by courtesy. It is the cheapest of the pleasures; costs nothing and conveys much. It pleases him who gives and him who receives, and thus, like mercy, it is twice blessed"
-Erastus Wiman


"Politeness is the art of choosing among one’s real thoughts."
-Adlai Stevenson

DIGNITY
"Remember this - there is a proper dignity and proportion to be observed in the performance of every act of life." -Marcus Aurelius

"Dignity is not negotiable. Dignity is the honor of the family."
-Vartan Gregorian

"All labor that uplifts humanity has dignity and importance and should be undertaken with painstaking excellence."
-Martin Luther King

"What should move us to action is human dignity, the inalienable dignity of the oppressed, but also the dignity of each of us. We lose dignity if we tolerate the intolerable."
-Dominque de Menil

"No one can dub you with dignity. That’s yours to claim."
-Odetta


DISCIPLINE
"Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments."
-Anonymous

"Self-respect is the root of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself."
-Abraham Lincoln

"He who lives without discipline dies without honor."
-Icelandic Proverb

DUTY
"Without duty, life is soft and boneless; it cannot hold itself together."
-Joseph Joubert, Pensees (1842) 8.52

"God obligeth no man to more than he hath given him ability to perform."
-Koran (6th & 7th C.), 65

"Duty then is the sublimest word in our language. Do your duty in all things. You cannot do more. You should never wish to do less."
-Robert E. Lee, Inscription Beneath his Bust in the Hall of Fame for Great Americans, New York University

"Do your duty and leave the rest to heaven."
-Pierre Corneille, Horace (1639) II.8

"What do I owe to my times, to my country, to my neighbors, to my friends? Such are the questions which a virtuous man ought often to ask himself."
-Lavater

ETHICS/MORALS
"Relativity applies to physics, not ethics."
-Albert Einstein

"We must never delude ourselves into thinking that physical power is a substitute for moral power, which is the true sign of national greatness."
-Adlai Stevenson

"Without civic morality communities perish; without personal morality their survival has no value." -Bertrand Russell, "Individual and Social Ethics," Authority and the Individual (1949)

"The first step in the evolution of ethics is a sense of solidarity with other human beings."
-Albert Schweitzer

"Ethics is a code of values which guide our choices and actions and determine the purpose and course of our lives."
-Ayn Rand

EXCELLENCE
"Whatever you are, be a good one."
-Abraham Lincoln.

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act but a habit."
-Aristotle.

"The reward of a thing well done is having done it."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

The secret of joy in work is contained in one word - excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it."
-Pearl Buck

"Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected."
-Stephen Jobs

"There is no real excellence in all the world which can be separated from right living."
-Daniel Star Jordan

"Excellence is the result of caring more than others think is wise; risking more than others think is safe; dreaming more than others think is practical; and expecting more than others think is possible."
-Unknown

ENTHUSIASM
Enthusiasm is the greatest asset in the world. It beats money, power and influence.
-Henry Chester

"Every memorable act in the history of the world is a triumph of enthusiasm. Nothing great was ever achieved without it because it gives any challenge or any occupation, no matter how frightening or difficult, a new meaning. Without enthusiasm you are doomed to a life of mediocrity but with it you can accomplish miracles."
-Og Mandino

"There is a real magic in enthusiasm. It spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment."
-Norman Vincent Peale

"Be ENTHUSIASTIC as a leader. You can’t light a fire with a wet match!
-Unknown

FREEDOM
"Any existence deprived of freedom is a kind of death."
-General Michel Aoun

"Eternal vigilance is the price of freedom."
-Raymonde Uye

".....Freedom brings opportunity. Opportunity makes your future."
-Curtis Armstrong

"You can only protect your liberties in this world by protecting the other man’s freedom. You can only be free if I am free."
-Clarence Darrow

"Freedom means the opportunity to be what we never thought we would be."
-Daniel Boorsten

"Freedom is nothing but a chance to be better."
-Albert Camus

"Freedom means choosing your burden."
-Hephzibah Menuhin

FAILURE

"Mistakes are the portals of discovery."
-James Joyce.

"Failure is success if you learn from it."
-Anonymous

"Defeat is not the worst of failures. Not to have tried is the true failure."
-George E. Woodberry.

"Being defeated is a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent."
-Marilyn Vos Savant.

"If thou art a man, admire those who attempt great things, even though they fail."
-Seneca

"Not failure, but low aim is crime."
-James Russell Lowell, For an Autograph (1868)

"He that lieth on the ground cannot fall."
-Yiddish proverb

"Flops are a part of life’s menu and I’ve never been a girl to miss out on any of the courses."
-Rosalind Russell, New York Herald Tribune, April 11, 1957.

"Failure is an event, never a person."
-William D. Brown

"You don’t drown by falling in the water; you drown by staying there."
-Edwin Louis Cole

"My great concern is not whether you have failed, but whether you are content with your failure."
-Abraham Lincoln

"Do not look where you fell, but where you slipped."
-African proverb

FAIRNESS/JUSTICE
"Justice is truth in action."
-Speech, Hansard 11 February 1851, col. 412

"A long line of cases shows that it is not merely of some importance, but is of fundamental importance that justice should not only be done, but should manifestly and undoubtedly be seen to be done."
-Rex v Sussex Justices, 9 November 1923, in Law Reports King’s Bench Division (1924) vol. 1, p. 259

"...for as thou urgest justice, be assured thou shalt have justice, more than thou desir’st." Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice (1596-8) act 4, sc. 1. l. [315] @ "All virtue is summed up in dealing justly."
-Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics (4th C. BC.), 5.1

"A man who deals in fairness with his own, / he can make manifest justice in the state."
-Sophocles, Antigone (442-41 B.C.)

"I am the inferior of any man whose rights I trample under foot."
-Robert Green Ingersoll

"It is impossible to be just if one is not generous."
-Joseph Roux, Meditations of a Parish Priest (1886), 4.10

"Justice is the crowning glory of the virtues."
-Cicero

"An honest man nearly always thinks justly."
-Jean Jacques Rousseau

"In giving rights to others which belong to them, we give rights to ourselves and to our country."
-John Fitzgerald Kennedy

FAITH

"Only the person who has faith in himself is able to be faithful to others."
-Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving (1956), 4

FRIENDS/FRIENDSHIP
"A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." -Walter Winchell.

"A true friend is someone who is there for you when they would rather be someplace else."
-Len Wein.

"Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?" -Abraham Lincoln.

"A man’s friendships are one of the best measures of his worth." -Charles Darwin.

"Be a friend to yourself; then others will."
-Mel I.

"The proper office of a friend is to side with you when you are in the wrong. Nearly anybody will side with you when you are in the right." -Mark Twain.

"Even the best of friends cannot attend each other’s funeral."
-Kehlog Albran

"Instead of loving your enemies, treat your friends a little better."
-Ed Howe

"Hold a true friend with both hands."
-Nigerian proverb.

"A new friend is like new wine; when it has aged you will drink it with pleasure."
-Apocrypha, Ecclesiasticus 9:10

"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."
-Euripides, Orestes (408 BC)

GRATITUDE
"Let not thine hand be stretched out to receive and shut when thou shouldst repay."
-Apoccrypha, Ecclesiasticus

"When eating bamboo sprouts, remember the man who planted them." -Chinese proverb.

"Do not refuse a wing to the person who gave you the whole chicken." -R.G.H. Siu

"Let never day nor night unhallowed pass, But still remember what the Lord hath done."
-William Shakespeare, King Henry VI, Part II

"Gratitude is the most exquisite form of courtesy."
-Jacques Maritain, Reflections on America (1958)

"One can never pay in gratitude; one can only pay "in kind" somewhere else in life."
-Anne Morrow Lindbergh

"Unthankfulness is theft."
-Martin Luther

"Appreciation is a wonderful thing; it makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well."
-Voltaire

"Gratitude is the heart’s memory."
-French proverb

Silent gratitude isn’t much use to anyone."
-G. B. Stern

"Gratitude is not only the greatest of vitues, but eh parent of all others."
-Cicero (Marcus Tullius)

HONESTY
"A person should not promise to give a child something and then not give it, because in that way the child learns to lie."
-Babylonian Talmud

"Always do right. This will gratify some and astonish the rest."
-Mark Twain.

"An excuse is worse and more terrible than a lie, for an excuse is a lie guarded."
-Pope John Paul II.

"An honest man’s word is as good as his bond."
-Cervantes, Don Quixote (1605-15), 2.4.34

"To make your children capable of honesty is the beginning of education."
-John Ruskin, Time and Tide (1867)

"An honest man’s the noblest work of God."
-Alexander Pope, An Essay on Man (1733-34), 4.247

"Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom."
-Thomas Jefferson


"Honesty isn’t a policy at all; it’s a state of mind or it isn’t honesty."
-Eugene L’Hote

"The pursuit of truth will set you free - even if you never catch up with it."
-Clarence Darrow

"A lie has speed, but truth has endurance."
-Edgar J. Mohn


HONOR
"Be noble-minded! Our own heart, and not other men’s opinions of us, form our true honor."
-Friedrich Schiller

"Be honorable yourself if you wish to associate with honorable people." -Welsh proverb.

"Run away from dishonor, but don’t run after honors."
-Jewish proverb

"A man has honor if he holds himself to an ideal of conduct though it is inconvenient, unprofitable, or dangerous to do so."
-Walter Lippman

"When faith is lost, when honor dies, the man is dead!"
-John Greenleaf Whittier

HOPE
"Hope is a waking dream."
-Aristotle (4th c. B.C), Quoted in Diogenes Laertius’ Lives and Opinions of Eminent Philosophers (3rd c. A.D.)

"Hope is a risk that must be run."
-Georges Bernanos, "Why Freedom?" The Last Essays of Georges Bernanos (1955)

"Hope springs eternal in the human breast: / Man never is, but always to be blest."
-Alexander Pope, An Essay on Man (1733-34), 1.95

HUMOR
"Humor is an affirmation of dignity, a declaration of man’s superiority to all that befalls him."
-Romain Gary, Promise at Dawn, (1961)

"A jest often decides matters of importance more effectually and happily than seriousness."
-Horace, Satires (35-30 B.C.), 1.10

INTEGRITY
"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not."
-Andre Gide.

"Never compromise yourself–it’s all you got."
-Janis Joplin.

"There are two kinds of people, those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there."
-Indira Gandhi.

"That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong."
-William J. H. Boetcker.

"Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are."
-Dale Carnegie.

"A man who permits his honor to be taken, permits his life to be taken."
-Pietro Aretino, Letter to Giambattista Castaldo, March 25, 1537

"Honor is like a steep island without a shore: one cannot return once one is outside."
-Nicolas Boileau, Satires (1666), 10

"Wisdom and virtue are like the two wheels of a cart."
-Japanese proverb

INTIMACY
"Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us."
-Rollo May, The Courage to Create (1975)

"Intimacy begins with oneself. It does not good to try to find intimacy with friends, lovers, and family if you are starting out from alienation and division within yourself."
-Thomas Moore, Soul Mates (1994)

KINDNESS
"The way to make yourself pleasing to others is to show that you care for them...The seeds of love can never grow but under the warm and genial influence of kind feelings and affectionate manners."
-William Wirt to his daughter.

"Never lose a chance of saying a kind word."
-William Makepeace Thackeray

"Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind."
-Eric Hoffer, The Passionate State of Mind (1954)

"One who knows how to show and accept kindness / will be a friend better than any possession.
-Sophocles, Philoctetes (409 B.C.)


"I expect to pass through this world but once; any good thing therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now; let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again."
-Etienne de Grellet


"Benevolence is the characteristic element of humanity, and the great exercise of it is in loving relatives."
-Tze-Sze, The Doctrine of the Mean (5th c. B.C.) 20.5

"That best portion of a good man’s life, / His little, nameless, unremembered acts /Of kindness and of love."
-William Wordsworth, "Lines composed a Few Miles Above Tintern Abbey" (1798)


"Men are only as great as they are kind."
-Elbert Hubbard


LAUGHTER
"A day without laughter is a day wasted."
-Charlie Chaplin.

"As long as you can laugh at yourself you will never cease to be amused."
-Anonymous.

"Laughter is the shortest distance between two people."
-Victor Borge.

"The human race has only one really effective weapon, and that is laughter."
-Mark Twain.

"He who laughs, lasts."
-David Myers, Psychology.

"Men show their character in nothing more clearly than by what they find laughable."
-Anonymous

"Frame your mind to mirth and merriment, Which bars a thousand harms and lengthens life."
-William Shakespeare, The Taming of the Shrew

"One inch of joy surmounts of grief a span, /Because to laugh is proper to a man."
-Rabelais, "To the Reader," Gargantua and Pantagruel (1532-64), I

"A man isn’t poor if he can still laugh."
-Raymond Hitchcock

"Time spent laughing is time spent with the Gods."
-Japanese proverb

LOYALTY
"Loyalty is still the same, / Whether it win or lose the game; / True as a dial to the sun, / Although it be not shined upon."
-Samuel Butler, Hudibras (1663), 3.2

"Only the person who has faith in himself is able to be faithful to others." -Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving (1956), 4

"To be capable of steady friendship or lasting love, are the two greatest proofs, not only of goodness of heart, but of strength of mind."
-William Hazlitt, Characteristics (1823), 235

OBLIGATION
"Do something every day that you don’t want to do; this is the golden rule for acquiring the habit of doing your duty without pain."
-John 17:4 (first known English translation of the Bible from Latin)

OPTIMISM
"You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses."
-Ziggy, character in a comic strip by Tom Wilson.

PERSISTENCE/PERSEVERANCE
"Press on; nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent."
-Calvin Coolidge

"The secret of success is to start from scratch and keep on scratching."
-Anonymous

"You can do what you have to do, and sometimes you can do it even better than you think you can."
-Former president Jimmy Carter.

"When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on."
-Attributed to Franklin D. Roosevelt

"Ride on! Rough-shod if need be, smooth-shod if that will do, but ride on! Ride over all obstacles, and win the race!"
-Charles Dickens

"Diligence is the mother of good luck."
-Benjamin Franklin

"A jug fills drop by drop."
-Buddha

"Persistence is to the character of man as carbon is to steel."
-Napoleon Hill

"It’s a little like wrestling a gorilla. You don’t quit when you’re tired, you quit when the gorilla is tired."
-Robert Strauss

"It’s not so important who starts the game but who finishes it."
-John Wooden

"Energy and persistence conquer all things."
-Benjamin Franklin

PRIVACY
"Civilization is the progress toward a society of privacy. The savage’s whole existence is public, ruled by the laws of his tribe. Civilization is the process of setting man free from man."
-Ayn Rand

"The human animal needs a freedom seldom mentioned, freedom from intrusion. He needs a little privacy quite as much as he wants understanding or vitamins or exercise or praise."
-Phyllis McGinley, "A Lost Privilege," The Province of the Heart (1959)

"Never miss an opportunity to make others happy, even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it."
-Unknown

PROMISE KEEPING

"Never promise more than you can perform."
-Publius Syrus

"Magnificent promises are always to be suspected."
-Theodore Parker

"Better a friendly refusal than an unwilling promise."
-German proverb

".....the world is divided into two classes of people: the few people who make good on their promises (even if they don’t promise as much), and the many who don’t. Get in Column A and stay there." You’ll be very valuable wherever you are.
-Robert Townsend.

"A promise made is a debt unpaid."
-Robert W. Service, "The Cremation of Sam McGee," The Spell of the Yukon (1907)

PURPOSE

"The secret of success is constancy to purpose."
-Benjamin Disraeli, Speech, June 24, 1870

"Obstacles cannot crush me/ Every obstacle yields to stern resolve/ He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind."
-Leonardo da Vinci, Notebooks ((c. 1500)

"The soul that has no established aim loses itself."
-Montaigne, "Of Idleness," Essays (1580-88)

REGARD/ESTEEM
"Never esteem anything as of an advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect."
-Henry Brooks Adams

"...love without esteem cannot go far or reach high. It is an angel with only one wing."
-Alexander Dumas

"The sage wears clothes of coarse cloth but carries jewels in his bosom; he knows himself but does not display himself; but does not hold himself in high esteem."
-LaoTzu

"What we obtain too cheap we esteem too little; it is dearness only that gives everything its value." -Thomas Paine

"Associate with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; it is better to be alone than in bad company."
-George Washington

RESPECT
"Without feelings of respect, what is there to distinguish men from beasts?"
-Confucius, Analects (6th c. B.C.), 2.7

"I must respect the opinions of others even if I disagree with them." -Herbert Henry Lehman

"Men are respectable only as they respect."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

"It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others." -John Andrews Holmes

"When you throw dirt, you lose ground."
-Texas proverb

"The precepts of the law are these: to live honestly, to injure no one, and to give every man his due." -Justinian I

"Indifference is the essence of inhumanity."
-George Bernard Shaw

"I believe....that every human mind feels pleasure in doing good to another."
-Thomas Jefferson

"Every man is to be respected as an absolute end in himself; and it is a crime against the dignity that belongs to him as a human being to use him as a mere means for some external purpose." -Immanuel Kant

"Never look down on anyone unless you’re helping him up." -Jesse Jackson @ "Prejudice is the child of ignorance."
-William Hazlitt

"If you lead through fear you will have little respect; but if you lead through respect, you will have little to fear."
-Unknown

RIGHTS
"The rights of one are as sacred as the rights of a million."
-Eugene V. Debs

"Anglo-Saxon civilization has taught the individual to protect his own rights; American civilization will teach him to respect the rights of others."
-William Jennings Bryan

"America did not invent human rights. In a very real sense...human rights invented America."
-Jimmy Carter

"Rights that do not flow from duty well performed are not worth having."
-Mohandas Gandhi, Non-Violence in Peace and War (1948)

"It is fair to judge people by the rights they will sacrifice most for."
-Clarence Day

"In giving rights to others which belong to them, we give rights to ourselves and to our country."
-John F. Kennedy

"Men, their rights and nothing more. Women, their rights and nothing less."
-Susan B. Anthony

SELF-CONTROL
"What it lies in our power to do, it lies in our power not to do."
-Aristotle

"He who conquers others is strong; He who conquers himself is mighty."
-Lao Tzu, The Character of Tao (6th C. B.C.), 33

"How shall I be able to rule over others, if I have not full power and command of myself?"
-Rabelais, Gargantua and Pantagruel (1532-64), I.52

"A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure."
-Oscar Wilde The Picture of Dorian Gray (1891), 9

"Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make, both consciously and unconsciously. If you can control the process of choosing, you can take control of all aspects of your life. You can find the freedom that comes with being in charge of yourself."
-Robert F. Bennett

SUCCESS

"I haven’t failed, I’ve found 10,000 things that don’t work."
-Thomas Edison.

"No person can be a great leader unless he takes genuine joy in the successes of those under him."
-W. A. Nance.

"It’s kind of fun to do the impossible."
-Walt Disney.

"All you need is ignorance and confidence and the success is sure."
-Mark Twain.

"I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody."
-Bill Cosby

"If the dogs are barking at your heels, you know you’re leading the pack."
-Anonymous.

"It takes time to succeed because success is merely the natural reward of taking time to do anything well."
-Joseph Ross.

"The man who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the man doing it."
-Chinese Proverb.

"One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation."
-Arthur Ashe.

"Success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm."
-Sir Winston Churchill.

"The only place success comes before work is in the dictionary."
-Vince Lombardi

"There is no elevator to success. You have to take the stairs."
-Anonymous.

"Success is the sum of small efforts–repeated day in and day out."
-Robert Collier.

"There is only one success: to be able to spend your life in your own way, and not to give others absurd maddening claims upon it."
-Christopher Darlington Morley (1890-1957)

"If at first you DO succeed, try not to look astonished."
-Anonymous

"Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom."
-General George Patton.

"Success lies not in being the best but in doing your best."
-Anonymous.

"If it’s stupid, but it works, it’s not stupid."
-Chinese proverb.

Money and success don’t change people; they merely amplify what is already there."
-Will Smith

"It’s not the going out of port, but the coming in, that determines the success of a voyage."
-Henry Ward Beecher, Proverbs from the Pulpit, (1887).

TOLERANCE

"Minds are like parachutes. They only function when they are open." -Sir James Dewar, Scientist (1877-1925).

"Let go of your attachment to being right, and suddenly your mind is more open. You’re able to benefit from the unique viewpoints of others without being crippled by your own judgment."
-Ralph Marston.

"Love looks through a telescope; envy through a microscope."
-Josh Billings.

"One sign of maturity is the ability to be comfortable with people who are not like us."
-Virgil A. Kraft

"The more opinions you have, the less you see."
-Wim Wenders

"Beware, as long as you live, of judging people by appearance."
-Jean de la Fontaine

"If you judge people you have not time to love them."
-Mother Theresa.

"Truth resides in the human heart, and one has to search for it there, and to be guided by truth as one sees it. But no one has a right to coerce others to act according to his own view of truth."
-Mohandas K. Gandhi

"The highest result of education is tolerance."
-Helen Keller, Optimism (1903)

"Resolve to be tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant with the weak and wrong. Sometime in life you will have been all of these."
-Dandy Lion

"There’s good in every body. Boost. Don’t knock."
-Warren G. Harding

TRUST

Trust men and they will be true to you; treat them greatly and they will show themselves great."
-Emerson, "Prudence," Essays: First Series (1864)

"A man who doesn’t trust himself can never really trust anyone else."
-Cardinal De Retz, Memories (1718)

"Love all, trust a few."
-Shakespeare, All’s Well that Ends Well, (1602-03), 1.1.74

"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."
-George McDonald

"Trust men and they will be true to you; treat them greatly and they will show themselves great."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson


TRUSTWORTHINESS/RESPONSIBILITY

"Unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall much be required." -Bible, Luke 12:48

"To be a man is, precisely, to be responsible."
-Saint-Exupery, Wind, Sand and Stars (1939), 2.2

"I am only one; but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; I will not refuse to do something I can do."
-Helen Keller

"Success on any major scale requires you to accept responsibility...in the final analysis, the one quality that all successful people have...is the ability to take on responsibility."
-Michael Korda

"Responsibility is the price of greatness."
-Winston Churchill

"You will find men who want to be carried on the shoulders of others, who think that the world owes them a living. The don’t seem to see that we must all lift together and pull together."
-Henry Ford II

"The buck stops here."
-Harry Truman


"Liberty means responsibility. That’s why most men dread it."
-George Bernard Shaw

"Never befriend the oppressed unless you are prepared to take on the oppressor."
-Ogden Nash

"To protect those who are not able to protect themselves is duty which everyone owes to society." -Edward Macnaghten


WORTH
"Outside show is a poor substitute for inner worth."
-Aesop

"Look beneath the surface; let not the several quality of a thing nor its worth escape thee."
-Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

"To gain that which is worth having,it may be necessary to lose everything else."
-Bernadette Devlin

"The true measure of your worth includes all the benefits others have gained from your success." -Cullen Hightower

"The greatest of all gifts is the power to estimate things at their real worth."
-Francois Duc de La rochefoucauld

YOUTH

"Our youth we can have but today, We may always find time to grow old."
-George Berkeley, Can Love be Controlled by Advice? (1713).

"It is better to waste one’s youth than to do nothing with it at all."
-Georges Courtelie, la Philosophie De G. Courteline (1917).

"The youth of a nation are the trustees of posterity."
-Benjamin Disraeli, Sybil (1845), 6.13

"Those who love the young best stay young longest."
-Edgar Z. Friedenberg, "Adult Imagery and Feeling," The Vanishing Adolescent (1956).

"Wise parents know that fighting a teenager, like fighting a riptide, is inviting doom."
-Haim G. Ginott, Between Parent & Teenager (1969)

"Young people are thoughtless, as a rule."
-Homer, Odyssey (9th c B.C), 7

"Youth is the time to go flashing from one end of the world to the other, both in mind and body."
-Robert Louis Stevenson, "Crabbed Age and Youth," Virginibus Puerisque (1881).

"The right way to begin is to pay attention to the young, and make them just as good as possible."
-Socrates, in Plato’s Euthyphroi (4th-3rd C. B.C.).

"Adolescence can be a time of turmoil an d turbulence, of stress and storm. Rebellion against authority and against convention is to be expected and tolerated for the sake of learning and growth."
-Haim G. Ginott, Between Parent & Teenager (1969).

"It is not possible for civilization to flow backward while there is youth in the world. Youth may be headstrong, but it will advance its allotted length."
-Helen Keller, Midstream (1930).

"Young people are fitter to invent than to judge; fitter for execution than for counsel; and more fit for new projects than for settled business."
-Francis Bacon

"The ripeness of adolescence is prodigal in pleasures, skittish, and in need of a bridle."
-Plutarch, "The Education of Children,"Moralia (c. A.D. 100).

"Youth smiles without any reason. It is one of its chiefest charms."
-Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray (1891), 14

"I go to school with youth to learn the future."
-Robert Frost, "What Fifty Said," West Running Brook (1928).

"Youth, even in its sorrows, always has a brilliancy of its own."
-Victor Hugo, "Saint Denis," Les Miserables, (1862) 3.8

"It is better to be a young June-bug than an old bird of paradise."
-Mark Twain

"Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; it is not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips and supple knees; it is a matter of the will, the quality of the imagination, a vigor of the emotions; it is the freshness of the deep springs of life."
-Samuel Ullman

"Those whom the gods love grow young."
-Oscar Wilde

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